When does the faucet turn off?

It's been 11 weeks since prostatectomy and I'm not
just leaking, I'm flowing at times.

Every time I sit down, bend over, stand up, you know
it's going to happen and it does..... I can't seem to
stop the flow.

Before surgery, I pee'd 3 or 4 times a day, including
before bed and when I woke, but this is ridiculous.

When I carry something, exert force, fart, sneeze,
laugh..... the leakage happens.

When, on average, could I expect this to slow and
even stop?

One person I spoke to, told me it was over 8 months.

HELP! This is driving me crazy!